Someone asked me a couple of weeks ago on FormSpring how I met The Mister. That reminded me that I had started the story, but never finished it.� Here is Part 1, written a very long time ago.� I’ll finish up with Part 2 and 3 this week.� I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoyed reminiscing about that day over 13 years ago.� Funny enough, yesterday was the 13th anniversary of our first date.
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I grew up in a strict, conservative Catholic home, the Argentine-born daughter of two immigrants. I was not allowed to speak with boys, date, or wear makeup. No daring outfits, dangling earrings, or dark nail polish. I begged, at the age of 13, to read Seventeen Magazine. I think my mom might have allowed it, but my dad flatly refused to even entertain the thought, even after I explained to him that 17 year old girls didn’t actually read Seventeen. After college, it was assumed I would return home. And I did. I was twenty-one years old.
I didn’t even think of getting my own apartment until I was around 24 years old. By that point, I was almost done with my Masters and my dad was finding it increasingly difficult to end arguments with, “Because I said so.” I found a very nice apartment in a lovely woodland(ish) setting. I had money saved up (living at home doesn’t cost much) and I took great pleasure furnishing my new place. As I placed furniture and hung poster art, I couldn’t help but fantasize of all the parties I would be hosting, late nights laughing with friends, and grilled dinners on the balcony.
Here’s the rub. Sheltered Catholic girls don’t have many friends, and the friends they do have lead equally dull lives. My friends from college all lived out of state and the ones still in town were preparing for graduate school or already working. Things were not going as planned. I was now poor, bored, and lonely. I started going home to have dinner and staying until it was time to go back to my apartment to sleep. Suddenly my parents and brothers seemed infinitely more interesting.
I’m a night owl, so I would often pull into the apartment parking lot between 10:30 and 11:00pm. I am also exceedingly cautious. Morning, noon, or night–whether I was in or out of the apartment I kept everything dead-bolted. On my first night there I installed a security light. So, I was on my toes when I stepped out of my car just before 11:00pm. I did everything right. I scanned the area. I held my keys in my hand, and even had one extended and ready to stab any unsavory genetalia that dared cross my path.
I bounded up the stairs, looked around and, seeing no one, unlocked the door and quickly went inside. I immediately locked all the locks, including the deadbolt. I put on my pajamas, washed my face, and was scrutinizing my eyebrows in a magnifying mirror when I first heard the knock on my door. I had been inside my apartment for less than 10 minutes.
It was a happy knock, if knock can be happy. The kind of knock you rap on a friend’s door when they are expecting you.
Knock! Knock!
Who’s there? I said without saying. I gently put down my tweezers and cocked my head, waiting for a familiar voice to call my name.
Knock! Knock!
Bill? Steve? Not Tiffany, we’re fighting. Kara is already in bed. A little something inside me started to tingle. I quietly stood up and walked towards the door. I didn’t make a sound as I stood before it, not knowing I was projecting my fractured image through the peephole to whoever was standing outside.
Knock! Knock! Knock!
A little more insistent. I softly pressed my fingertips against the door and looked through the peephole.
White male, or light-skinned hispanic. Early 20s. Average height, 5’8-5’10. Overweight and doughy, about 220 pounds. Dark hair slicked back, round glasses. Some acne. He must have sensed my presence or noticed movement in the peephole because he suddenly broke out in a huge smile and chuckled, like I should be happy to see a miniature version of him staring back at me. I did not say a word. I did not know him.
I reached down to release the deadbolt, and then changed my mind. Instead, I walked into the kitchen and pulled my chef’s knife out of the block and walked towards the bedroom. I picked up the phone and debated calling the police.
And then he tried to kick down my door.
For a split second, I stared at the door in disbelief, wondering if perhaps I didn’t imagine the crash. But then it came again, and I knew by the way the window in front of me shook that he was rushing the door and trying to break the deadbolt. I called 911 and explained in bursts what was happening. I had to yell over my potential intruder (who was now screaming, cursing, and kicking the door) for the operator to hear me.
The operator was very nice. He took down all my information and told me someone would be there shortly. And then he said he had to go.
Please don’t hang up. I’m scared. I could barely speak the words. My mouth was taking in short gasps of air like a fish flopping on a shoreline.
I’m sorry. I have to answer more calls. It occurred to me the operator didn’t want to stay and hear what would happen when my intruder made his way past my locks.
We hung up, and I called every person I knew and then my dad. Only my dad was home, and by the time I reached him the pounding at the door stopped. In the deafening quiet he almost didn’t believe me when I told him someone tried to break into my apartment and the police were on their way. He showed up as I just as I finished giving the officer my statement. He thanked the officer and as I walked down the steps towards my dad, the officer called down from my stoop.
Your daughter is very lucky. There’s someone going around. She would have been the 3rd.
We didn’t ask ‘the 3rd what?’ because we didn’t want to know. My dad never said a word on the way home, and I never went back to the apartment.� A family friend cleared it out and put everything in storage. I canceled my lease. I resumed my boring, sheltered life, only this time with great pleasure.
Two weeks later, Kara called me and invited me to eat dinner at our favorite restaurant, T.G.I. Fridays in celebration of my regained financial freedon. Now that I was back at home I had plenty of money for such luxuries, and 30 minutes later we were in the lobby of the restaurant waiting for a table. I had a night class for my masters, but if we ate fast, I could make it in time.
“I know you two ladies aren’t waiting for a table.” A voice, confident and teasing.
Kara and I looked over to find a bartender leaning over the bar and looking in our direction. We both turned around to make sure he was talking to us.
“Yes, I’m talking to you.� You’re not really going to wait for a table when you can have dinner right now with me, are you?” Ugh. I thought he was going to speed the hostess along and instead he is asking us to eat in a bar? Gag.
Kara and I looked at each other. I don’t really drink. I don’t go clubbing or dancing or partying. I certainly don’t eat dinner in bars with people I don’t know.� My eyes said it all: I don’t think so.
Kara looked back at the bartender. “Sure, why not? That sounds like a great idea!” (Kara always thinks this sort of thing is a great idea.)
We walked into the bar, Kara with a more lively step. I smiled a smile that wasn’t really a smile at the obvious regulars; they chuckled into their bourbon. I made a point to sit at a table in the bar, but not at the actual bar. I wasn’t going to be there long, which would serve that bossy bartender right.
The bartender smiled at my passive-aggressive defiance and walked around the bar to our table. He greeted Kara first and then turned to look at me.
“Hello there.”
I took in his hair, dark as pitch, hiding underneath a gray Kangol hat worn backwards. Eyes the color of sea glass stared right through me, and for the first time in my life I blinked first.
Hello there yourself, Mister.
Amy says
I love it already … can’t wait for the second and third installments … :)
Becky O. says
I read this the first time you posted it and it is just as griping then as it is now- ( did you die? Yes, but I lived ( Ice Age Three )
I’m so glad you are continuing it. Now at the risk of sounding pushy and demanding, get on with the kissing!
lol.
Sara Jane says
That picture is too sweet! It kills me!
I don’t know that I could have handled myself as well as you did during that harrowing experience! Did they ever catch him?
Also, I would have melted into a puddle if I was you at TGIFridays. :)
Brigitte says
Your gift for storytelling really shines in this post. I went through your terror, annoyance and sense of possibility right along with you.
Miss B. says
Oh I loved this story the first time and love it more this time. So, so sweet. I am sorry about that frightening experience, I probably would have dropped dead right there, you are a brave, brave girl.
Carlee says
I can’t wait to see what happens next!!
I had a similar experience with the banging… I’d lived in my new house for just a few days and was there alone when it sounded like someone was kicking in my basement door. I called my dad and he rushed over. Turns out it was just the new furnace flexing… It was terrifying and there wasn’t even anyone there! If there had actually been someone down there, I would’ve never gone back!
Piper says
You have such an incredible way with words. I love your writing and so can’t wait to hear what happens next! (btw, when i was in college someone tried to break into our apartment while my roommate and i were there…scariest thing in my life. I was scared for you as I was reading your story!!)
LauraC says
Wow. First time reading this and that would be TERRIFYING!!!! Can’t wait to read more!
erika says
My heart felt like it clenched, slowed, and then sped up as I read about the horrifying night and then about that eye-opening evening. Lovely way with words.
And as a married Catholic girl that went back home after graduate school, I so completely get the first part of the story. And the daydreams of dinner parties:)
susan says
Oooooh! I’m intrigued! And, of course, relieved that you LIVED and were safe enough to meet any other “mister” at any other place after that scary apartment experience.